Get Happi Now Video – Make Money Doing What You Love
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Get Happi Now Video – Make Money Doing What You Love

Do you believe if you do what you love, the money will follow?

I do. I also believe it’s important to CHASE the money.

We all can’t just quit our day jobs and paint all day long. Or sit on the bleach all day writing music under the sun. AND create a ton of wealth. Is that possible? Yes. Is it the fast track to freedom? Probably not.

I believe we CAN create extraordinary wealth in our uniqu-ability. That thing that we’re exceptional that, that we really love to do and that contributes to humanity in some way. We can create wealth doing what we LOVE to do.

So we CAN do what we LOVE and the money will follow. IF you chase it. IF you take action and IF you maintain your money flow while you’re pursuing what you love.

I advise my clients to keep their jobs and start doing what they love along side of that. Only when you’re mentally, emotionally and financially ready can you take that leap.

Watch this video about a guy I met who I KNOW will be creating a lot of wealth doing what he loves…

And then head over to my Facebook page and tell me what you think. Can you do what you love and create wealth? I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.

Get Happi Now Video – The First Step to Find Out What You Want
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Get Happi Now Video – The First Step to Find Out What You Want

I’ve been speaking and teaching for almost 20 years on the topic of happiness and creating your dream life.

A LOT of people tell me that they “don’t know what they want“.

I believe we do know what we want. We just need to get more clear on that. And I have a few processes that I’ll share in the next few weeks to help you get more clear on what you want in all different areas of your life.

Let’s start now with a simple intention.

Can you start living in the space of actually KNOWING what you want?

Can you set an intention to KNOW what you want?

That’s the first step. Set the intention and create from that space.

Watch this short video and hear about a few simple tips I share with my clients.

How’s it going? Comment below, or post on my Facebook page and let me know if you have more questions. I’m here to help you get clear. Let’s design the road map to your dream life together.

How I Overcame “Bad Mom” Syndrome
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How I Overcame “Bad Mom” Syndrome

I was recently reflecting on my happiness. I’m a happiness coach so this comes natural to me. I realized that I was really happy in many areas of my life. I’m in great shape. I have a fulfilling career. Two happy healthy kids. The spouse of my dreams. A great social life. My husband and I were getting along great. So what was that lingering feeling that was giving me anxiety? Like I accidentally had a triple espresso. You know that heart flutter and unease that can come and go? Diving deeper I realized it was my parenting.

I have read every book out there on parenting. You name it….positive discipline, mindful parenting, simplicity parenting, whole brain child. I read baby books, toddler books, sleep books, routine books, everything. But that lingering anxiety was still there. And I finally honed in on the fact that it was a deep fear creeping up. That fear? Bad Mom Syndrome. I think a lot of women have a deep fear of being a ‘bad mom’. Having kids who misbehave. Yelling at our kids. Feeding them sugar, wheat, non-organic food. Too much TV. Too much technology. Not enough road trips and bike rides.

Now that I was aware of my big fear it was time to address it. Where did it come from? And how was it affecting me? I realized I was letting it control my life. When my kids had a meltdown, yep, fear manifest. They’re melting down because I don’t know what I’m doing. They misbehave, un-huh, there you go, I’m a bad mom. They don’t listen, yep, these books don’t’ work, I’m clueless, I need help. They’re out of control, they don’t eat, fear manifest.

Luckily, awareness is the key. When I became aware of this deep fear, this limiting belief that was running my life, now I can do something about it. Step one, look at my reactions to my kids perceived behavior. Was I reacting from my higher self? Or from my bad mom fear? Hmmmm. Let’s see, I’m yelling at them and grabbing them by the arm like a lunatic. Yep, bad mom fear. Next how can I change it? For me, that came down one big shift.

Radical acceptance.

How can I radically accept my parenting?

I looked deeply at my strengths and highlighted those. And looked at my weaknesses. And stopped trying to change those. I might not be an all organic, whole food, sugar free Mom and I’m okay with that. I might give my kids an iPad in the car or to running errands and I’m ok with that too. The stress comes from feeling bad about it. Wanting it to be different. Next…

How can I radically accept my kids?

In all their perfect imperfections. Can I accept them as the perfect messy 3 year old and the bold fearless 6 year old that they are? Is it ok if they don’t take a bath every night? Yes. Why did I ever think differently? Maybe the 52 parenting books I read actually took away my ability to listen to my guidance and make my own decisions.

The most empowering decision I ever made in my parenting was to stop seeking advice. And start trusting my own instincts. Focus on my strengths, on what I’m good at, on what I can do. And really accept those areas that I need some work. So what If I don’t take both of my kids swimming when I’m alone. I’ll get over it. And the more I accept who they are like the perfection in every sunset. The better we all experience life. Syndrome cured.

Here’s how you overcome Bad Mom Syndrome.

Step 1. Awareness

Awareness is the key. When I became aware of this deep fear, this limiting belief that was running my life, now I can do something about it. I was aware of my reactions to my kids perceived behavior. Was I reacting from my higher self? Or from my bad mom fear? Hmmmm. Let’s see, I’m yelling at them and grabbing them by the arm like a lunatic. Yep, bad mom fear. Yikes. How can I change that?

Step 2. Radical acceptance

How can I radically accept my parenting?

I looked deeply at my strengths and highlighted those. And looked at my weaknesses. And stopped trying to change those. I might not be an all organic, whole food, sugar free Mom and I’m okay with that. I might give my kids an iPad in the car or to running errands and I’m ok with that too. The stress comes from feeling bad about it. Wanting it to be different. Next…

How can I radically accept my kids?

In all their perfect imperfections. Can I accept them as the perfect messy 3 year old and the bold fearless 6 year old that they are? Is it ok if they don’t take a bath every night? Yes. Why did I ever think differently? Maybe the 52 parenting books I read actually took away my ability to listen to my guidance and make my own decisions.

Step 3. Trust YOU

The most empowering decision I ever made in my parenting was to stop seeking advice. And start trusting my own instincts. Focus on my strengths, on what I’m good at, on what I can do. And really accept those areas that I need some work. So what If I don’t take both of my kids swimming when I’m alone. I’ll get over it. And the more I really accept who my kids are like I do the perfection in every sunset, the better we all experience life.

Syndrome cured.