Why Do We Suffer?
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Why Do We Suffer?

The reason we suffer is because we think the world should operate differently than it does.

We believe people should do what WE think they should do.
We think things should unfold in our favor. Always.
And that things should be easier than they are. 

We’re ‘shoulding’ all over ourselves. This ‘shoulding’ is the root of our stress. Not the actual events.  Or the people. Or the words.  When we have radical acceptance for life and really unconditionally love everyone around us, our world changes.  We begin to see everything as perfect. Even the “problems”. Even the pain and suffering. Even the Pandemic. Even the trauma. 

When we radically accept our world and our circumstances we find peace. When we sit with all experiences as the truth of that they are completely perfect for the unfolding of our soul experience, then we find not only peace but bliss. 

Can you get a glimpse of this? Life gets easier when we get here.

It’s our birthright.  Life is not about suffering.  It’s about radical acceptance, finding our inner strength, and finding as much joy along the journey as possible.  Life is too precious to be spent suffering.  

Let me know if you need help with this. #nextlevellife

How’s your state today. Are you finding the beauty?
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How’s your state today. Are you finding the beauty?

How’s your state today?  Are you focusing on all the beauty in the world?  

Watch this short video to hear some strategies that are working for me to get in the best state and get through these hard times.

You asked…. and it is given. Due to popular demand, we are starting our first Badass Mom Book Club. And I couldn’t be more excited about it. It’s an author’s dream to host a book club for her very own book.

If you’re looking for some support, some coaching, and more community during these trying times I hope you’ll join us. We’ll be meeting on Zoom weekly and discussing one “Awakening” from the book per week. Even if you can’t make the call you’ll get the recording and can still participate. Join here

My Husband Is So Negative And Stressed Out!
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My Husband Is So Negative And Stressed Out!

What can I do if my husband is really negative and stressed out? This is one of the biggest questions I get. And I get it. Our relationships can be the source of the most stress or the most joy. 

I share some strategies in this quick video training I recorded just for you guys. And address how to get along during these crazy times. This pandemic is forcing a lot of relationship issues up to the surface. It’s up to you if your relationship will fail, survive or thrive. 

We have to check in often. And make sure we’re building a solid foundation. 

How’s your relationship doing on lockdown? What can YOU do to make it better? Check out this short video for ideas and head over to my Badass Mom Society FB group for more training like this.

Your relationship matters. Make it count. 

Is there something you want to hear about?  A big question you’d love an answer for? Email me here….steffani@myhappilife.com