The Art of Allowing
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The Art of Allowing

Many years ago I went to an Abraham Hicks workshop on The Art of Allowing. I had already been studying the law of attraction for over 20 years, teaching it in workshops and created a program for the Chicago Public Schools. But I was ready, REALLY ready to hear about the art of allowing.
There were a few things that I was ‘trying’ to manifest that hadn’t happened yet.  One specifically I wanted to sign with a big acting agent for commercial work and book a commercial. I’d been trying to manifest this for almost a year. It was on my vision board. On my wishing tree. In my box of dreams. I visualized it daily. I submitted to this agent every few months.
WHY wasn’t it happening yet.
I sat down in my chair in the banquet room of some Sheraton or Westin or something and was ready for the info.
Do I need to hang crystals in my bedroom? Sleep on magnets? Is my vision board broken? Do I need to do some Feng shui or burn some sage? Whatever it is I’m ready. Just tell me what I need to do to ALLOW in this dream.
I knew I was clear on it. I had ASKED for it. I believed I could have it. So how could I allow it in?
And then I got it…..
The whole theme of the workshop was about happiness.
I remember hearing Esther say “Just how happy can you be?”

Our HAPPINESS is the art of allowing. It’s through our happiness that we ALLOW all our desires in.

Ahhhhh yes!! YES! YAY!
So all I have to do is be happy? Yes! It sounds so simple. But it’s not that easy. You don’t even have to be happy with the thing that you are wanting. You can be happy petting your dog and you’re in the state of allowing. You can be happy eating a blueberry muffin and you’re in the state of allowing. Sure it helps if you’re happy with your job and you want to attract a new, better job. But you don’t have to. You can be happy playing Frisbee and you’re in the state of allowing in a new job. Isn’t that awesome?

Our happiness is that important.

I teach my clients how to ‘safeguard’ their happiness. Because our dreams are that important. And if they’re directly linked to our happiness, then our happiness is crucial.
One more important piece.

No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

No circumstances direct your happiness either.

It’s an internal job. And it’s a choice. You can choose to be happy or not. It’s up to you. You can choose to do things that make you feel happy or not. It’s also up to you.
When I left that workshop I knew that my happiness was the KEY to multiply and turn up my manifesting powers.
So I went after it. Like it was my JOB. I made a list of all the daily things I could do that made me happy. I made a list of all the people in my life that made me happy. I made a list of things I wanted to do that would make me happy. And I focused on those lists, like a recipe.
Doing these things that make me feel happy will get me these big dreams?! DONE!
Two months later I got the call….. from my dream agent. And 2 months after that I booked my first commercial. I can safely say I allowed all that in through my happiness.
Just how happy are you?
What are you doing to safeguard your happiness?
Be happy, read my book. http://www.badassmombook.com
You Can Have It All
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You Can Have It All

We CAN have it all.

As long as “it all” is whatever YOU want. There’s a lie we tell ourselves that we don’t deserve it. That there’s not enough to go around. That its hard. That we have to suffer to get it.
They’re all lies. Anchors we drop that hold our boat back from floating downstream. These lies are limiting beliefs that we begin to create from.
We create our reality through our thoughts, words and beliefs.
Why let those anchors hold you back any longer?
Drop the anchor and your boat will float naturally. You don’t need to pick up the oars. And paddle. Just…. let…. go.
Cut the rope of every anchor and let go. Your boat will turn and flow downstream. Downstream is where your dreams are. Focus on the end result of what you DO want.
Remove the limiting beliefs that are holding you back.
“I’m not enough.”
“I need to DO more.”
“I’ll be happy when I get________.”
“But my husband is so negative.”
“I don’t deserve it.”
“Who am I to have it all”
Let your boat do what comes naturally. Let it turn and flow with the river. Your desires are waiting there.
If you need help with this I’m here for you.
http://badassmommindset.com/
Are You Ready for a Next Level Life? (This is not for everyone!)
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Are You Ready for a Next Level Life? (This is not for everyone!)

My Next Level Life Mastermind is not for everyone. Women have to meet certain criteria to even be considered. Why?

Because this work isn’t easy. And it’s not for beginners.

This work is a full investment. In mind, body and soul.

Here are some of the prerequisites to join this sisterhood:

  • Next Level Live MastermindYou must be inspiring or have an inspirational mission
  • You must have done a lot of work on yourself already, and achieved great success in many areas of your life
  • You must have coached with me one on one, or in my group or have read my book
  • You must believe in yourself and desire a healthy lifestyle
  • You must be willing to dream F’ING HUGE and desire to make a big impact on your family, community, and the world
  • You must have strong desires and big challenges, not willing to take the easy road
  • You must be fun and willing to let go, stay open and be coachable
  • You must understand the power of commitment, and be ALL IN with this sisterhood
  • You must come from love, power, and certainty, not fear and lack
  • You must be willing to put aside things that no longer serve you and take ACTION ACTION ACTION

This program takes great women who have already achieved a lot of success in life, to extraordinary places. It forces results that you would have never had had you not committed to this. And it creates more transformation than you could have ever imagined possible.

This is big work we’re up to. And you have to be up for it.

If you’re longing for MORE. If you’re ready to step up and actually achieve it. I encourage you to apply.

Buckle your seat belt. This ride is about to get a whole lot more fun!!!